5 Things People Must Avoid Doing When Trying To Woo Their Flame
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From classroom crushes to blushing at the sight of a cute person in the lift, we sure have come a long way. But if there’s one thing that stays constant – its ‘vulnerability’. A serious crush takes your hormones, mind and heart for a ride, drowning you in everything from excitement, nervousness to anticipation. The main task at hand is to break the ice, and pursue your wannabe-significant-other in the right manner.
However, a lot of us tend to make some rookie mistakes that can certainly wreak havoc and soil a relationship even before it starts!
Take a look at these 5 habits that are a definite recipe for disaster when it comes to wooing your flame.
Showing Off – A Big No!
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While creating a good impression on your crush is no easy feat, going overboard with it is just a bad idea. The worst thing you can do is to show off- which only goes on to display your lack of self confidence and constant need for validation.The best way to brag about yourself to others is probably not to brag at all. Let other people do the bragging for you – that’ll get you all the attention!
Avoid Being Clingy
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Haven’t we all wished that our crush replied to our messages almost instantly, ask us out for a movie maybe? But hey, the last you want to be in such a scenario is clingy! It’s important to give your FLAME his/her space, and let things happen in their own time.
Instead of hyperventilating and being clingy, allow your crush some breathing space. It will only make them realise that you respect their personal life, and they might be more likely to interact with you.
Don’t Be Over-Possessive
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Among the top ways to butcher a potential relationship is being unreasonably possessive. I mean, it should be yin and yang – the ideal balance of being concerned enough to question, but never being overtly intrusive.
Just like every other thing in this world, excess of anything is bad so there has to be a limit to everything. Give them a little space.
Don’t Take Too Long To Text Back
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If you have a crush on someone, quit playing mind games. Reply to their text as soon as you see it. If you know what you want to say, don’t hesitate to say it. If you genuinely don’t know how to respond, then give it some time and think over it.
While most of us think that replying instantly will make people think we are either jobless or too desperate, it not true at all. You should be comfortable with the person you like, that’s what marks good start!
Don’t Always Talk, Listen!
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Heart-mark this point right away! Don’t be the person who goes on and on about their day, not giving the other person a chance to interject. Sit back, be all ears, make the other person feel important, and ask questions too.
This gesture is as heart-warming as it gets!
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